WEdnesday I did some photo shoots at playgroup of the kids dressed up for santa photos. That was exhausting. Then I had to jump in the car and run over to the OB in tamworth. Our air conditioning in the car is broken so It was a very hot drive with it being 38 degrees. I havent been able to walk very well for over a week so had to go over and see the ob. Seems its just the position of the baby pushing on my already deformed spine.. While i was there we talked about my placenta. It is anterior and stiting across my scar at the moment. HE is sending me for a scan in a few weeks and if it hasnt moved it may be growing into the scar. He said if this is the case I will most likely have a hysterectomy at the time of the birth... Im feeling really sad about it all and at the moment just trying not to look to far ahead. I would really like at least one more baby. Bit sad if I have to have that decision made for me...Anyway Wednesday arvo I was just soo sore and could hardly walk and it was so hot that i couldnt get the energy to drive home. So we ended up going out and staying at mum and dads house. I had NO clothes or anything but it was much better driving back early the next morning before it got to hot.. My nan was also staying at mum and dads cause she had day surgery in Tamworth to get rid of a cataract. She had to go back to see the specialist the next morning and the next we knew she was flown to sydney for emergency surgery. They said it was most probable she would lose her eye. She had got an infection in it.. SHe went in to theatre late thursday night and 4 hours later they finished with her still having her eye. At the moment things are ok.. ( touch wood)....
Ive nearly made 24 weeks. The next 4 weeks are sooo important gestation wise. I just dont feel like we are gonna make it as far as I did with HOls. The pains and pressure in my stitch have started already and I guess cause Im not resting as much as I did with Hol my body is telling me to slow down. SO stupid me goes and says that I will look after my girlfreinds 6 month old baby for 2 days a week till xmas cause she has to go back to work. Jay is not happy at all and told me im not allowed to do it.... Wish I just knew how to say NO...
5 comments:
Kaysie, TAKE IT EASY girl! Maybe tell your friend that your OB has ordered bedrest and so you can't do it. I hope the placenta moves away from the scar, you don't need any more complications.
Seconding the earlier "Please rest" Pains and niggles are your bodys way of telling you to slow down. It isn't worth the consequences to ignore them.
You already know what I think ;) Tell you friend that it is just too risky. I hesitate to say this because I know you might dwell on it, but you would never forgive yourself if something did happen...
Especially doing it on a day you have Hols in care, kinda defeats the purpose...
Narelle
Thanks girls, I know that I shouldnt do it, I just find it so hard to say no. And I adore Ellie and kind of feel like Im letting her down...
I messaged her this morning about it and she hasnt come back to me. I know she will be really mad cause we ahve been through it before where I couldnt have her son one week ( i used to have him while she was at work, he is 3 months older then Hol) and she was really dirty on me..
ok i want you to repeat after me... N... O.. it's easy once you practice it a bit mate lol.
Seriously though, you NEED to take it easy, and looking after someone elses kids isn't what you need right now. Explain to her the situation, if she doesn't already know.
And if she does know then she shouldn't be bloody asking you in the first place. Sorry if that's a bit harsh, but you need to keep that bub in place for as long as possible.
And i really hope that placenta gets moving for you as well.
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